Sunday, May 27, 2018

On Empathy

[edit: took this down earlier bc of how 'vulnerable' it seemed but Amanda pushed me to re-upload it so here it is!]


Artistic expression holds such power to evoke empathy – empathy, one of the greatest emotions mankind is blessed with being capable of.


             When prior to coming across these forms of expression I had little or close to no opinion on certain such matters, Alicia Elliot’s ‘A Mind Spread out on the Ground’ enlightened me on the suffering of exploited indigenous people, Tom Hooper’s ‘The Danish Girl’ and Ivan Coyote sat me smack in the shoes of the derogated transsexual, and Maya Angelou and Claudia Rankine gave me a taste of the ordeals colored people have had and still experience today. While in the earlier stages of my life and ignorance I felt complete neutrality regarding these minority groups prone to discrimination, thanks to such works of film and writing I would at any time now readily stand in defense and support of them. Why I stood neutral before, I believe was because of the lack of relatability I felt with these groups. With feminism for example, I had no trouble embodying it from a young age, in the most natural way, as I am female myself, and my home country where I grew up was largely colored like me so there was little mistreatment among us anyhow, little to think about. But art – art makes us feel the experiences we never had, experiences that belong to others. It puts us in the skin of the transsexual who feels every pair of eyes of those around them boring critically into their own uncommon body, it shares with us the self-consciousness of the colored who endures micro aggression, it tells us of the endogenous depression that ails the indigenous Canadian whose ancestors were forcefully and violently ripped of their land ownership by foreigners. Why are some people shunned, considered of less value and importance, purely for the circumstances under which they are born or for their own beings which they cannot help? Thus in the most humane way we empathize, we feel these sorrows, notice the wrongness of their sufferings, wish for justice for them. Without empathy, how is it possible to make true human connections? It ties humans together. To empathize is to feel for someone or something else that is not yourself. It is selfless. It is to judge less. This is what art does: it feeds us tastes of experiences – I do not mean the experiences themselves, for that would be belittling the hardships of these minorities – that our own lives probably cannot. The more I learn about these hardships, the more off the fence I sit, and I know without a doubt which side I am on.


Edit: This subject of judgement also stretches out to habits and preferences. Certain habits, joys, ways of life are unfamiliar to or different from ours or unconventional, but many people with these things are no doubt good, wonderful people, and not very different from you and me. We connect with one another by looking beyond the differences that stand between us. And we have no reason to think one of us is better than the other as a person.